Free up your mind

Just had a feeling of heaviness coming over me today when i woke up.. so many people i know around me with relationship issues, including relatives whom have been married for so many years with children in tow are getting divorced due to infidelity, cheating and lies.

I’m thankful that i do have a couple of great friends who will be there for me when i need them the most.

But the question is, where is one’s soul-mate?

The one who understands your every emotion, ups & downs. The fundamental balance when you’re angry, he will be the calm one, vice versa. The one who will be there when you’re having an emotional breakdown and answers your call at wee hours of the night, not to coax you immediately to go sleep and hang up the phone, but rather to listen through why you’re upset and only when you’re feeling better will he then be able to go back to sleep.

The one whom you would want to wake up to every morning., and the last thing you see before you go to sleep. The beautiful words you will never ever get tired of complimenting each other to motivate and make each other a better person.

Love is never scornful or degrading.

Love is a beautiful word, used too blatantly by everyone nowadays. And under appreciated by everyone. Then randomly given up to be used onto another new found stranger in life.

No emotionally draining relationship is worth you giving up your own happiness to maintain it. I realize that being a strong person is not always easy, but I believe that it is the only right way to live and to love and be loved in return.

The weight of any form of negativity is immense. No situation is unchangeable.

You CAN free yourself. You just need the strength of your own conviction

“Wish of the day i have for everyone: Stay happy also, remember to smile and thank God that you still have great friends, career, family. Be rich in spirits even when you think you have nothing.”

Lastly, just want to wish all mothers out there

“Happy Mother’s Day!”


Random Quotes

Saw a person’s blog and happened to chance upon these quotes:

“They don’t miss you when you’re gone,

They miss you when you’ve moved on”

“Love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely”

“May your search through nature lead you to yourself”

“Use your smile to change this world

Don’t let this world change your smile”

“I believe that everything happens for a reason

People change so that you can learn to let go

things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right

you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself

and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together”

– Marilyn Monroe

“If you judge people, you’ll have no time to love them”

– Mother Theresa




“Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you. When something wonderful happens, you can’t wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful. There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever. Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face. In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do. Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life.”

-Bob Marley